Frequently Asked Questions

We’re so thrilled to have you join us for our special day, and we want to make sure you have all the information you need to plan your trip and celebrate with us. This page is your go-to resource for details about the wedding, including the schedule, accommodations, family-friendly activities, and more. If you have a question that isn’t answered here, please don’t hesitate to reach out—we’re happy to help! We can’t wait to celebrate love and joy with all of you on June 7th, 2025, at The Inn at Cook Street in Provincetown, MA.

When is it again?

It’s all going down on June 7th, 2025, at 4:30 PM. Don’t be late—we’ve got a tight schedule of love, vows, and cake-cutting to stick to!

Where are we going?

We’ll be tying the knot at The Inn at Cook Street, 7 Cook Street, Provincetown, MA. It’s a charming little spot with plenty of character—and probably some great photo ops! Plus, it's right by the beach!

What if it rains?!

Well, it's not. But, if it does, we have a rain plan! Our rain plan moves our ceremony and reception to the Provincetown Commons, a space that features old-school charm of the historic Community Center, renovated with a modern aesthetic for artist exhibitions. The start time will move to 6:30pm if we are using the rain plan.

What should I wear?

Think semi-formal, cocktail hour, or a work meeting where your crush will be in attendance. Bright, summer colors. Basically, look sharp enough to make Grandma proud, but comfy enough to enjoy yourself!

Are kids welcome, or should I find a babysitter?

Bring the kiddos! We’re all about the family vibes and will have some fun activities to keep them entertained. Just make sure they don’t eat all the cake.

How do I RSVP?

Easy peasy! Just head to the RSVP section on our website and let us know if you’re coming, or send the postage-paid RSVP card sent to you. 

Can I bring a favorite human or two (aka a plus-one)?

If your invitation said “+1,” then absolutely! If not, just ask--but likely yes! Just make sure to include their name when you RSVP so we can make them feel just as special as you.

Where should I crash after the wedding?

We’ve got some room blocks set up at a couple of great spots in Provincetown, such as the Harbor Hotel. Check out the 'Stay' section on our website for all the details and links to book your room. Remember, if you're a member of the wedding party, or received a note about a "reserved room" in your Save The Date, you'll be staying with us at the Inn.

How are we getting around?

Provincetown is walkable, bikeable, and very small. We’re offering a "Love Buggy" to and from the Ferry. Details are on the 'Travel' section of the site.

Where do I park?

Provincetown parking is tight, and there are only so many spaces near The Inn at Cook Street. We recommend parking at your hotel and walking, or calling our Love Bug for a ride! The phone number will be posted here closer to the wedding! Otherwise, street parking may be available .

What’s the food situation?

We’ve got you covered with some delicious options, and yes, we can handle dietary restrictions—just tell us what you need when you RSVP. Don’t worry, there will be cake, canniolis, and cupcakes!.

Can I take pics during the ceremony?

We’d love it if you could put your phone away and enjoy the moment with us. Our amazing photographer will capture all the good stuff, and we promise to share the photos after!

Is there a party plan?

Absolutely! Here’s the schedule: Ceremony at 4:30 PM, cocktail hour at 5:30 PM, and celebration shortly after--all at the Inn. 

Is there live music?

Yes, we will have live music as you get settled and during the first hour of dinner; if you have a favorte tune you want added to the reception playlist, let us know!

Are there pre- or post-wedding hangouts?

Yes! There are some fun, individual events with Jacob and Becca, and a welcome dinner the night before (June 6th) at The Inn, and a farewell brunch the morning after (June 8th) for those wishing to say goodbye. Details are in 'The Weekend' section on the website.

What if I have more questions?

Shoot us an email at drbeccabarile@gmail.com or give us a call (if you don't have our phone number, we're not sure you're invited!) We’re happy to help—especially if your question is, “Can I have an extra slice of cake?”